The Sages teach us in Gemarah that if
the woman is happy, the home is full of blessing and
shefa, sustenance. If she is unhappy on the other hand,
the channels of blessing are blocked up. It is so
important for a woman to bring happiness into her home.
If the children grow up seeing unhappy parents, they
will grow up emotionally disturbed.
A woman represents the Shechinah but
at the same time, we are told from Chazal that the
Shechinah distances Herself when someone is downtrodden.
When the Shechinah leaves a person's home, all craziness
breaks loose. Shefa, blessing ceases and the klipah, unholy
forces start to hold sway.
Rebbe Nachman teaches that no matter
what, a person must force themselves to be happy. Even
if it involves joking around and serving Hashem with
utter simplicity. You have to do what it takes to be
Woman have many external forces which
can lead them astray from the Torah. Ones emotions can
play a very big role in atmospheric stability. Should
you find yourself overwhelmed and sad, sing a song and
begin thinking of all the good things you have done for
Hashem and others. Do not allow anymore negative
thoughts to enter you mind but only allow happy thoughts
to reside inside you and eventually any negative will
No matter what, do not let yourself
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